Surviving Family Holidays with Your Spouse—Together!

Hello Heavenly Family!

Family holidays are magical... and, let’s be real, a little stressful. Whether it’s juggling traditions, navigating family dynamics, or deciding which side of the family gets your time, the holiday season can test even the strongest relationships. But don’t worry—preparation is key, and with a little teamwork, you and your spouse can turn this season into a time of connection and joy, not chaos.

In This Newsletter’s Issue

1. Relationship Tip of the Week

2. Why Holiday Prep Matters

3. How to Prepare for Family Holidays as a Team

4. We Want To Hear From You

Relationship Tip of the Week

Holiday Mantra: “We’re a team.”

Remind yourselves of this whenever stress creeps in. Lean on each other, and remember, this season isn’t about pleasing everyone—it’s about sharing joy and love.

Why Holiday Prep Matters

Family holidays often bring joy, nostalgia, and many expectations. Without preparation, it’s easy for misunderstandings and stress to overshadow the magic of the season. Preparing together helps you:

• Present a United Front: Families can have opinions—lots of them. Working as a team makes decision-making smoother.

• Set Realistic Expectations: With multiple commitments, it’s essential to manage expectations—yours, your spouse’s, and your families’.

• Strengthen Your Bond: Facing challenges together can deepen your connection and solidify your partner role.

How to Prepare for Family Holidays as a Team

1. Plan Ahead

• Discuss Your Priorities: What traditions matter most to each of you? Decide together which events are non-negotiable and where compromises can be made.

• Create a Schedule: Map out your commitments to avoid last-minute chaos. Include travel times, events, and moments for just the two of you.

• Set a Budget: Gifts, travel, and hosting can add up. Agree on a budget beforehand to keep finances stress-free.

2. Communicate Openly

• With Each Other: Share concerns or hopes about the holidays. Acknowledge any potential stressors, like tricky family members or time constraints.

• With Your Families: Be clear and respectful about your plans. Setting boundaries early prevents misunderstandings.

3. Protect Your Connection

• Make Time for Yourselves: Amid the hustle and bustle, carve out moments to recharge together—watch a movie, take a walk, or simply share a quiet meal.

• Check In Regularly: Keep communication flowing throughout the season. Are both of you feeling heard and supported?

4. Prepare for Curveballs

• Practice Flexibility: Even the best plans can go awry. Keep a sense of humor and a team-first mindset when the unexpected happens.

• Have a Signal: Agree on a subtle cue to communicate when one of you needs a break or backup during family events.

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Final Thought

Family holidays don’t have to be a whirlwind of stress. By preparing together, setting boundaries, and nurturing your connection, you and your spouse can embrace the season with love and unity. This holiday season, focus on what matters most: the love you share and the family you’re building together.

To Growing Together,

Dakota Hall

Author of A Heavenly Union